I think myself lucky that my partner knows actually where my clitoris is ... touching and playing gently with the clitoris with fingers or toy is the most enjoyable pleasure us women can get and want .. so it is a surprise that there is a hight percentage of guys don't know where it is ...
We need to teach our men where it is and how to gently touch it ... I can just image what would happen if we went straight into our partner's genitalia with teeth showing , or pulled them about