Me... I am a very sensitive, caring tactile lover , who sex drive is way up there in the clouds and beyond and of course Lord G is over the moon about that lol  ...I tend to get into a beautiful headspace when being touched or touching, has it  always been like that ? , no not all... Lord G has given me the freedom to explore to be free, to be able to trust my own sexuality and his 

Talk during intercourse.... one of the signs of an emotional connection is talking during sex. ... I find it such a turn on if Lord G talks to me , dirty talk of course 

Engage in physical touch. How to get closer to your partner sexually? ...  I  always like to try new things being  open , I love to be touched all over ,  I love soft touch of materials like fur and silk... and example I brought Lord G these boxers they are so soft to the touch can't keep my hands off him .. Mmmm , also love the feel of metal chains over my body it is so eroctic ., sends shivers in a good way over my body 

Take care of each other's emotional needs Is so important, sharing thoughts and fears with each other is so important we talk about our past and the future very openly  

Cuddle and kiss. ... That is a must being close even if sex is not on the cards,  skin on skin is important,  endorphins are released , I love to lay and feel him close to me and softly stroke skin 

Express your love for each other I am always sending him naughty little massages and pictures , and telling him him how much I love himso much each day ,  I use to think is he tired of me telling him so much  but he said he is so happy to hear it everytime I say those three little words that mean so much to us ..

Giving and receiving .. well that goes without saying,  we are both not selfish lovers we want to pleasure each other equally , we just go with the flow and have no agenda which is important just being  free to touch and expore and tell each other what we like and don't like and we  focus on having fun 

Let your guard down that some times can be difficult in a new relationship I know I had issues to start with but trust ,honest and respect soon had me feeling the desires and want that I craved in our relationship 

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Both being swingers has brought us closer together without a doubt , it has made us more attractive to each other if that is possible it has made the sex far better, it has made us more open with each other about everything 

When I first encountered my first experience with Lord G in the swinging world , I didn't really know what to expect would I be jealousy ? ,  would I be able to handle seeing  him being with someone else?.. of course they were the feelings going through my head and his too , but because we have a honest and open relationship they were not a issue once things hotted up so to speak, in fact it was far the opposite I was so sexaully aroused by it all.

We always play together in the same room not apart, I am not saying we won't in the future,  but right now that is where we are ,we both get pleasure from seeing each other with others in the same room .

We always come back together at the end of the night to have explosive foreplay and sex together and talk about the experience of that play session... that is so important and most couples we talk to with the swinging scene do the same .. reclaiming for a better word   ❤