Rules and boundaries for lifestyle swingers

Having rules and boundaries are important when you start a swinging lifestyle, although they can change as you evolve as a couple ... We still have a open mind to our rules and boundaries 

 

Lord G alway protects me where ever we are , I feel safe .

we only had one big rule when we started swinging and that is still in place now ..  we stay in the same room for playing  ...of course that could change who knows .. but it is one we feel strongly about from the start and even now , even with single guys or females we introduce to our relationship we play or watch together   .. 

Our boundaries are condoms yes, same room sex , never take one for the team

( if I say no it is a no and likewise )

Transparency is important Lord G and myself will tell each other if we have text someone or are chatting to a couple or single person for play

Things have change on what we are looking for as we started out thinking just couples but now we are looking for bulls , dragons and a unicorns and that special unicorn just for just me ..

Here below is a YouTube video from Jess in progress where other couples have talked about there rules and boundaries,

I love the way that she gets emotional over one of her boundaries,people don't quite understand that when you swing as a couple it is totally amazing you have a beautiful bond with your partner though it and boundaries can get emotional when you talk about them 

I personally feel that swinging has strengthen my relationship with Lord G far more than any non monogamy relationship I have ever had in the past